Feminist? or Feminazi?

 
      Well! It is so common now that even if you call a girl “hot” there would be hundreds if questions standing against you. Why did you said that?, Who are you to say that? How can you use that word? etc and unfortunately if you are a boy you will be given various tags like moron, pervert, asshole, they have no end and never the less what if your intentions are actually bad behind that word “hot”?. So where does this path lead?. The thing to be blamed here is the thought process of gaining complete autocracy over equality which can be somewhere related to feminism, whereas being a feminazi is showering your polluted mindset having no relation with the word "freedom" which somewhere brings in the heat to the concept of narrow-minded thinking. Today scolding a girl for her mistake is counted as a crime in the eyes of a feminist. The actual cause of this problem is feminazi which hardly has some researchers on it as the rest of them are coating it with various meanings of feminism.

      There are females using their rights positively, but also there are some who never fail to embezzle it using their rights in substandard way. A receivable situation took place some moments before. I was out with my cousins on a beach and we were happy creating our merriment moments. To get a good frame I told a man to move a bit aside in a calm and smooth tone. In case he did not want to get aside he could have replied in the same tone disagreeing with my words. However, he decided to scold me loudly gathering some bunch of attention so that he could prove his words which were “Who are you to tell me that?, Why shall I get aside? Now you will have to get out of here”. One of my cousin pulled me towards her when she saw him coming towards me in an aggressive body language with full power and I was standing all blank trying to judge his intentions behind creation of that scenario. After that even if we were willing to stay at that particular place the situation ordered us to do the opposite. If I wanted I could have raised my voice at a louder peak compared to him or could have made him realise his mistake, but at that time what I was made to do was to ignore that man. I am still into the scepticism deciding was it really to ignore his stupidity? OR was it due to the threat of various eyes watching us?. The man through his mentality proved himself more strengthened but those eyes with all question marks were only on me as no one knew his intention. Now there would be various opinions taking place in your mind, but what I am desiring to conclude through this incident is that still there are places where “the feminist mentality” is needed and at the same time there are places where “the feminazi mentality” should be abandoned. Currently if women s are not safe at 90% of the places, there are also men s treated ungraciously at rest of the 10% places. This can probably be due to a scary feminism treatment.

       If you are a feminist for some good cause then there is always a bright future in your hand, but if knowingly or unknowingly you take your actions with the intention of mentally harming others than the same bright future is somewhere turning its path. Talking about feminazi it never fails to explain the unlettered thought concept about women s of today. Let it be in rural areas or urban areas the concept of feminazi has been forming its home in brains from a long period of generations. So decide to fight for a cause which provides change in damaged brains rather than just publishing judgemental views because what matters here is how you give your power to the those who deserve it and how you dare to stand alone where needed. 


By,
Namrata Dalmia

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